First, decide whether you want to create a digital family tree or a paper one. The choice won’t affect the steps you'll follow, but it will determine the tools you'll use.
Digital: You’ll need a computer and genealogy software or an online platform like Ancestry.com or FamilySearch.org. These tools often provide easy ways to enter information, save your work, and even share it with others online.
Paper: You’ll need a large piece of paper or a notebook, and pens or pencils. This option is great if you enjoy hands-on activities or want to create something you can display.
Gather Information
Start by writing down what you already know. Focus on your immediate family first—parents, siblings, and children. Then move on to your extended family—grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins. Record their names, dates of birth, marriage dates, and any other significant events.
Talk to Relatives
Reach out to family members to fill in gaps in your knowledge. Older relatives can provide stories and details about family members who are no longer with us. Remember to ask for copies of old photos, letters, and documents like birth certificates and marriage licenses, which are valuable resources.
Organize the Data
Arrange the information in a systematic way:
Start with yourself at the base of the tree.
Add your parents above you, then their parents above them, and so on.
Include siblings and cousins at each generation, branching out from their respective parents.
Document and Verify
As you gather information from different sources, keep a record of where each piece of information came from. This is especially important if you are using public or online records to verify details. Accuracy is key in genealogy.
Update Regularly
Your family tree is a living document. As new family members are born, marriages occur, or new discoveries are made, update your tree. It’s a continuous project that can grow over time.
Share Your Findings
Share your family tree with other family members. Not only does this allow you to showcase your hard work, but it also encourages others to contribute their knowledge and corrections, ensuring the information remains accurate and rich.
Keep It Respectful
When sharing information, especially sensitive or potentially upsetting information, be mindful of family members' privacy and feelings. Respect their wishes if they prefer certain details remain private.